Select Committee on Home Affairs Written Evidence


APPENDIX 20

Memorandum submitted by T H Aldridge

  1.  This submission is mainly concerned with criminal and civil justice processes, but it includes references to the police and multi-agency matters.

  2.  In his conference speech on 24 September, the Prime Minister denied that Britain has a fragmenting society and he quoted the Bible in support of his policies. But other people can quote the Bible too. If Mr Brown turns to the front of his Bible he will find that God punished Eve by making her subservient to her husband. The ten commandments require sexual morality. God obliterated Sodom and Gomorrah because they indulged perverted sexual practices. Even Jesus chose twelve men to be his disciples.

  3.  The difference between Britain now and past societies, British and others through-out the world irrespective of religion, is that they all had marriage and patriarchy. These ensured stability. But now in Britain, marriage has been fatally under-mined, patriarchy is being deliberately destroyed, and, for the last ten years Gordon Brown has been among the leaders of this process.

  4.  The claim is that men in the past abused their strength and enslaved women. Men and women, so we are told, have identical abilties. Only a fool could truly believe that, but that is the basis of the Sex Discrimination Acts. We have laws founded on biological fallacy and one conesquence of this attempt to defy human biology is the huge increase in domestic violence. While the Government claims to abhor domestic violence, it pursues policies which increase the circumstances in which it flourishes.

  5.  Laws founded on biological fallacy require other laws to back them up. The Domestic Violence Crime and Victims Act 2004 is one such. The National Domestic Violence Delivery Plan Progress Report 2005/06 states that this law is proposed to "impact" on domestic violence by "Enabling courts to impose restraining orders on acquital for any offence (or, if a conviction has been overturned, on appeal)[my underlining] if they consider it necessary to protect a victim from harassment" (page 29). This establishes a new legal principle as follows: if an alleged perpetrator is found not guilty by a court of law, his freedom can nevertheless be restricted if the judge feels inclined to do so.

  6.  It is an attack on British freedom, and, make no mistake, on the freedom of men, not women. The word "Victim", in the eyes of the government and some courts of law, means "Woman". Men are deemed to be the perpetrators. The only proof the family courts require is the allegation of a woman.

  7.  The British establishment denies that the physical and mental differences between men and women prevent them from having identical abilities. It pretends that women have a more important function in life than giving birth and raising children. Men have been cast in the role of the villains of society, blamed for the consequences of the denied biological differences between the sexes.

  8.  This is Marxism applied to sex. But Marxism has failed. The Soviet Union imploded. Most of the former communist countries have abandoned national-isation for private enterprise. Those that have not remain in abject poverty.

  9.  Sexual Marxism has also failed. British society is fragmenting. Men and women can no longer live together long enough to raise their children as Nature intended that they should. This has resulted in the wholesale neglect and emotional deprivation of children.

  10.  Neglected and emotionally deprived children grow to adulthood and in turn breed neglected and emotionally deprived children. These people form an underclass in which under-aged and teenaged girls give birth, and under-educated boys and young men are unemployed and commit violent crime. In Britain that underclass is now so big that it is undermining social stability. The police can no longer enforce law and order.

  11.  Almost daily someone is shot or stabbed to death. In many areas gangs rule the streets. The Daily Mail of 22nd September carried an article on a boy of 15 who is leader of a gang in Manchester. He does not go to school, makes about £100,000 a year dealing in drugs, carries a knife, has access to guns including a machine gun, and is feared even by men in the same culture. His mother takes drugs and has no control over him. That is the situation with most of the other boys in his gang. The article claimed that there are some 200 such gangs in the country and they are no longer just in large cities.

  12.  No human society can survive such a state of affairs for long. The fiction, that men are violent and women are their victims, is at the root of the drive against men, in spite of the sexually neutral language of legislation and other written documents. Until now, all protests at the stupidity and injustice of this situation have been peremptorily brushed aside. The Government and the Family Courts have denied bias and injustice. But, these policies have been extremely socially destructive, causing huge damage to children, hence the crisis of law and order, as well as educational incompetence and a host of other problems.

  13.  This inquiry has been set up to investigate how measures to reduce domestic violence are progressing. But the strategy to demonise and criminalise men is counter-productive. It actually creates the conditions in which domestic violence flourishes. The inquiry has been overtaken by events. We are slipping into anarchy and chaos. If the descent into anarchy and chaos cannot be averted, then the Government will no longer control the agenda.

  14.  The Committee can dutifully carry out an exercise to find out how well the imposition of a biological lie is succeeding, and risk seeing the law and order situation spiral out of control. Or it can abandon the Government's approach to reducing domestic violence, establish the facts behind family breakdown and the epidemic of violent crime we are now experiencing, and make radical recom-mendations to Government for averting the impending disaster.

  15.  Domestic violence, in common with wars, poverty, murder and robbery, will always be with us. All we can do is reduce the circumstances in which it flourishes. The government's own statistics show that domestic violence, both to men and to women, is least likely in heterosexual marriage (see the Home Office's own Domestic Violence website).

  16.  Yet everything the Government has done in the social field has been designed to damage heterosexual marriage and to promote the informal and perverted sexual relationships in which domestic violence flourishes. The Family Courts, social services and all the other apparatus of social policy enforcement are geared to this policy. Quite apart from the unsustainable social damage, the legislation is an attack on the principles of innocent until proved guilty and the right of Britons not to be imprisoned without proof beyond reasonable doubt. These are principles for which this country was once renowned and respected.

  17.  If this inquiry is to reach any useful conclusions it will have to arrive at a truth which is being wilfully concealed. Even such things as police records, which should record facts, are distorted, because many men are unwilling to report being victims of female violence. Those who do seek the protection of the law may find that they are ridiculed, or even themselves arrested by police and removed from their homes. If they should be unwise enough to try to defend themselves from their violent women, those women may then call the police and have them arrested as the perpetrators of the violence. There could hardly be better disincentives to men to report the criminal acts of the women who assault them.

  18.  It is very important that this Committee should establish the truth about domestic violence because the fiction of only male on female violence is counter-productive. It increases domestic violence. Women are encouraged to make false allegations in secret courts so that they will be given the marital home and care of their children. By their perverse decisions the courts are offering financial inducements to women to break up marriages. But children living with mother or father and an unrelated adult are at much greater risk of violence, including sexual violence. (The Cost of Family Breakdown, page 57, (see para.22) gives a figure of violence to the child as being some 33 times more likely compared with a child living with its married natural parents).

  19.  Chapter 2 of the book, Divorce, published in 1997 by the United Kingdom Men's Movement (ISBN 1 900616 05 X) was written by a practising solicitor, Adrian Pellman, and exposes what was then happening in these closed door courts. In the last year or two there has been some sign that the courts are beginning to address the problem of resident parent mothers who defy court orders and frustrate contact between separated fathers and their children. (This is itself very serious mental domestic violence against both the children and their fathers.)

  20.  However, the hostility to men and the confiscation of their property goes on. These courts deliberate behind closed doors and reward false accusations and the wives" infidelity. The judges use judicial discretion to frustrate the intentions of Parliament, which never intended that men should be stripped of their property by deserting wives. Their iniquitous rulings encourage divorce, damage children and increase the likelihood of domestic violence. Those are some of the conse-quences of attempting to make a fairer society by denying biological fact.

  21.  Other evidence of malpractice, by judges and lawyers, is provided by pages 10 to 12 inclusive of a Report to the Lord Chancellor in 2000 by the Children Act Sub-Committee of the Advisory Board on Family Law. The sub-committee put forward a definition of domestic violence which was not "gender" neutral in spite of the fact that the seven people on it included a judge (the chairman) and two senior lawyers. The corrected "gender" neutral version nevertheless implied that the residential parent, the vast majority of whom are mothers, would be the one suffering the violence.

  22.  Pages 19 and 20 of The Cost of Family Breakdown, published in 2000 by the Family Matters Institute, deal with how easy divorce has become and its effects on fathers and children.

  23.  "Whereas divorce was once limited to cases of irreparable breakdown, it may now happen because a "more desirable" partner has been located. The welfare of children is deemed irrelevant. As a result of divorce, many children will lose contact with their father, particularly if he is denied access rights. 30% of non-resident fathers have no contact with their children."

  24.  It quotes David Popenhoe, an American academic. "Father absence is a major force behind many of the attention-grabbing issues that dominate the news: crime and delinquency; premature sexuality and out of wedlock teen births; deteriorating educational achievement; depression, substance abuse and alienation among teenagers; and the groing number of women and children in poverty." It comments that "it is beyond dispute that one of the major causes of father absence is divorce"

  25.  Researchers at Oxford University comment, "Couples with children tend to stay together longer before separating if they have signed the marriage contract. Divorced fathers are more inclined than absent and unmarried fathers to play an active role in the continued upbringing of their offspring. If the welfare of children is paramount, then it is social heresy to assert that all lifestyles are of equal value".

  26.  That last paragraph should be particularly noted, because the position of the Government, the family courts and all the child protection professions is just that: that all lifestyles are of equal value. But it is not only children who suffer outside marriage. The informal relationships are all much more violent. Within the marriage of their natural parents, not only children, but also the adults are very much safer.

  27.  The decline of morality and marriage, regarded by many as irreversible, is the cause of huge increases in domestic violence. When the Government pretends to abhor domestic violence, and passes laws which infringe the freedom of men, it is quite intentionally undermining heterosexual marriage. Since in all other relation-ships domestic violence is more likely, it is a self-defeating Government policy.

  28.  Unless something is done very quickly to arrest and reverse family breakdown (long term solution), and to restore proper policing on our streets, we face a future of mob rule, in which hard working, law-abiding citizens have no protection from criminals.

EXECUTIVE SUMMARY

  29.  Domestic violence will never be totally eliminated. All that can be done to reduce it is to promote the conditions where it is least likely to occur. Those conditions only exist within formal heterosexual marriages.

  30.  Domestic violence is not just a male on female phenomenon as the Government, the family courts, social services and the police pretend and would have us believe. Women use weapons to overcome physical inferiority (30 men a year are murdered by women) and they also use psychological violence, such as denying fathers contact with their children.

  31.  Almost without exception, those people, authorites and organisations which make such a fuss about domestic violence, and the need to stop it and punish perpetra-tors, are themselves promoting the conditions in which violence flourishes. This is true of the Government, the family courts, and the social services. The police have a policy of removing men from the home even when the men are themselves the victims of the violence.

  32.  In order to try to prevent the violence it has itself promoted, the Government has enacted laws which contravene the principles of innocent until proved guilty and that no one should be imprisoned without proof beyond reasonable doubt. These threaten proud British traditions of freedom.

  33.  The whole fiasco of the decline of marriage, and treating men as inherently violent, is the result of trying to apply Marxist theory to sexual differences. It is resulting in the neglect and emotional deprivation of children on a massive scale, as well as undermining the legal basis of British freedom. Socially alienated teenagers and adults are now causing chaos and undermining law and order.

  34.  The Home Affairs Committee should properly investigate who perpetrates dom-estic violence, the circumstances in which it flourishes, and make practical re-commendations to Government for its reduction. These should include accept-ance of the fact that men and women do not, and cannot have identical abilities, and that the raising of children in a stable, safe environment (heterosexual marriage being the only such environment), is essential to a stable society.

1 Ocotber 2007





 
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